So i work in an office. And i`ve noticed something for a long time. Its kinda like being in CHSE. SEC. or whatever. Kinda like a place where there are girls and boys. men and women. and most of the time we talk about sex. Sexual innuendos. Sexual thoughts. Simple words in the language turned to something different. And what surprises me is that, most of the time everyone here including the girls have a laugh about it. Even when a guy is being, well a guy. You know if a guy is reading this or a lesbian, we talk about asses and tits. Breasts. Boobies. Well we talk about them their size, shape, category, etc etc right? and what it would be like to have them in our hands or whatever falls into that category, told u that girls have a laugh about it now dho, but in the past, when i was younger i have come across situations where girls have totally been angry, frustrated, offended by this type of talk.
Actually they think that we think they are objects of pleasure only. Well you`re not totally just put here for that, but for a normal guy, a girl is the object of his desires. And you cant put a price on desire. But yes i agree, its not nice to jump from girl to girl; desire wise.
Going back to the real topic, i was just wondering why in my office they dont get offended at all. I mean dhimaalah bunyas nuveyea. So what is it? Total acceptance of guys being guys? or its just easy to laugh along? or when you grow older you get more open minded about it? or is it because at the end of the day when you see a guy you do exactly what we do?
Please if you are a girl, please answer the above. And yes you can give your own answers too.
Going back again to the object of desire part. Do you girls know what it is to be a guy? You call us perverts, nerds, fat, yuck, ooooh and if looks could kill the male species of humans would be extinct by now. (Of course we will take you with us). I just mean sometimes you guys are so mean to some guys. You never give them a chance, like if a guy is nerdy or doesn't look like a hunk you`d probably never even notice him. Not until he approached you, and did you know how difficult that is? Ever been on top of a slide for the first time? Ever felt that fear with the excitement flowing through you? Not knowing how its going to end? Imagine that...
Not to be a pain but a lot of women, girls say that "they" look for the inner beauty of a guy. Not the outer shell. But that really isnt true right? If you dont find him attractive the guy has to work like hell to make you like him, then harder to make you love him. (Ok you dont get these kind of guys alot now)
Sure guys are shallow .. more shallow than you guys (maybe) but its still almost the same. You say we go for attraction, for boobs or big butts. But you go for eyes, cheek bones, body structure, hair, smile, dimples its not our fault we dont have "flesh and skin" where you can appreciate them. But you do realise that until you are attracted to a guy its hard to like him "that way". Isnt it?
Actually they think that we think they are objects of pleasure only. Well you`re not totally just put here for that, but for a normal guy, a girl is the object of his desires. And you cant put a price on desire. But yes i agree, its not nice to jump from girl to girl; desire wise.
Going back to the real topic, i was just wondering why in my office they dont get offended at all. I mean dhimaalah bunyas nuveyea. So what is it? Total acceptance of guys being guys? or its just easy to laugh along? or when you grow older you get more open minded about it? or is it because at the end of the day when you see a guy you do exactly what we do?
Please if you are a girl, please answer the above. And yes you can give your own answers too.
Going back again to the object of desire part. Do you girls know what it is to be a guy? You call us perverts, nerds, fat, yuck, ooooh and if looks could kill the male species of humans would be extinct by now. (Of course we will take you with us). I just mean sometimes you guys are so mean to some guys. You never give them a chance, like if a guy is nerdy or doesn't look like a hunk you`d probably never even notice him. Not until he approached you, and did you know how difficult that is? Ever been on top of a slide for the first time? Ever felt that fear with the excitement flowing through you? Not knowing how its going to end? Imagine that...
Not to be a pain but a lot of women, girls say that "they" look for the inner beauty of a guy. Not the outer shell. But that really isnt true right? If you dont find him attractive the guy has to work like hell to make you like him, then harder to make you love him. (Ok you dont get these kind of guys alot now)
Sure guys are shallow .. more shallow than you guys (maybe) but its still almost the same. You say we go for attraction, for boobs or big butts. But you go for eyes, cheek bones, body structure, hair, smile, dimples its not our fault we dont have "flesh and skin" where you can appreciate them. But you do realise that until you are attracted to a guy its hard to like him "that way". Isnt it?
3 comments:
lots of questions i see, well..mayb we dont get angry n stuff becoz we hav becum so used to all these kinda talks and teasings...everyone talks about it, dhimalah viyas. Mayb the intention of the guy is to make her angry or raki but u guys hav made it such a usual thing for us girls, to talk abt boobs and butts, dont u think?
u mean only girls say that they go for inner beauty? dats the line of guys...when some1 first calls u..(maybe he hasnt seen the girl yet) and when the girl says that u havent even see me yet, the guys always say that the look doesnt matter and that the personality and the beauty of the heart is all that matters..yea right!
girls are pervertic too...they even look at your places but u cant disagree that guys do look for the outer layer more than the inside...big boobs and butts do attract you all more..maybe not for all but it is this way in general
u say u do all the hard work to make us luv u and accept u, u dont think we do the same? to love us the way we are? u guys dont accpet a girl for the real her...some change needds to be brought al the time right? come on, no one likes the whole of someone, maybe there will be something u will never like....
for girls with no boobs or butts, u call them flat chested and no butt girls...its not out fault that we are not blessed with all the stuff u need either!!!! (dont get me wrong)
it was not my intention to say that women did not do the same for men.. maybe more.. the whole point was that while men (being pigs and all) arnt much different than u guys
men seldom go for the inner beauty.. not in my experience.. and a guy never calls without seeing the girl..(i think u girls knw that by now).. my point was that men arnt the only ppl who fall for looks..
it wasnt about that acceptance ... i wasnt talking about two loving people in a relationship.. who are different but want to stay together so compromise comes into the picture and they change for each other.. just mentioned what it feels to be a guy sometimes.. and like i said the whole point was not to say that we are better.. just we are almost the same as u.. we get treated the same.. we treat others the same..
if you looked like us and we looked like u.. i can gurantee that you wud hoot, shout, call us names-basically wat we do.. at us.. now all we can show are our muscles..(for some ppl :( )if we had boobs and butts.. on the road.. girls be going like "oooh ass ass ass".. when a guy walks by..
and about that.. flat chested thing.. yes we do say that.. i myself say that.. first of all.. sorry.. but do u knw of all the stories women have spread about guys penises being small or big? or weird..? or they shot too soon.. we men shoudnt classify women or rank them per boob rate.. but the amount of sperm a guy can provide a girl doesnt have to be directly proportional to the amount of time she can spend with him either..dho... im just saying.. if we ran around naked.. or in some way u girls can see mens penises.. u will.. im sure u will..classify them..short, medium, rare, extordinary and was god crazy?..wudnt that be true?
Aaaah... Explorin the annals of heterosexual attraction...
Men maybe shallow.. Most men are..
Theyll look for boobs n butts..
But ull hav to agree tht women like the extraordinary hunk too..
To be seen with a gudlookin guy or one hu has a reputation to be a womanizer or good at sex..
To evn be associated with such a guy wud be enough sumtimes without evn havin a relationship..
Look arnd u.. U see more stuck up women then guys.. theyll put their noses up n look down on the average guy..
Its mostly guys tht approach women.. So it presents a difficulty.. guys dnt typically get approached.. hehe..
My View..
I look for hot sexy grls..
I look for cute innocent grls..
I look for butts n boobs..
But nuthin beats a good personality..
Cant hav a gud relationship with the arse or tits if ya havnt got a good head on the grl who'll help use em.. right?
However this is different for a guy or grl lookin for a fcku buddy or a one night stand..
Good relationships appreciate the small,the big the huge and the tiny...
One night stand??
Id rather take the grl who has wat im lookin for physically..
But ppl hav morals...
Some do anyway.. kekekeke
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