what makes us so depressed yet we can muster the courage to smile, what makes us tick even when we are so angry we could literally rip the head of the person infront of us???
i mean why do we supress our anger, hate, dissapointment, sadness.. but have no limitations when we laugh wen we smile and when we give praise or encouragement... why do we step back a little when we want to critisize..
is it cause we cant take it??? cant take the feeling of letting someone down?? of hurting someone?? why do i do it... dont knw y... i mean i have let ppl down made ppl cry.. and yet felt nothing.. why now.. or why sumtimes..?
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maybe its the fact that we don't want to show we're vulnerable.
if we were to get angry, then we are showing that we are infact affected by the person..
its all about how you feel towards the person...
if you have strong emotional feeling towards a person...you tend to hide your disappointments towards that person...
but hiding ur dissapoinment.. wudnt that pave the road for more dissapointments???
Err..shall i present another view?
the real human is very concerned.. however he may deny it.. abt how other ppl see us..
One may not appear to care.. and in rare cases may actually not...
but in the case of peer groups and ppl we interact with and care for; we are reluctant to fall in their eyes..
coz not everyone can take criticism and fear sum fragile retribution...
it is this fear i think tht stops us..
but for the person who duznt really care.. one will say as one wills.. and leave for the other person to take constructively or feel offense..
so that means we are too weak wen it comes to ppl we love???
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